Need advice, love problems!

[Carla]

Awwww......this is so CUTE!!!^_^ Don't rush things us girls don't like it. Take things NICE and SLOW!!! We girls always LOVE to talk!!!! Ask here about her past??? and how her life is now??? Just talk with her and before you know it you will be talking all the time!!!^_^ Don't rush seeing her I know YOU REALLY WANT TOO!!! But don't seem to pushy about it. It will happen when the time is right!!! GOOD LUCK!!!^_~

[SS Kakarot]

Thank you so much Phobos, and Carla.
I will take things slow for now and see how it goes, she is still talking with me, and she's so nice!

I have a really good feeling about this now.
Even if she doesn't love me, I hope we can talk to each other forever like we do now.

[Carla]

Good Luck!!!^_^

Friend + Friend could = more in the Future ^_^

Take Care!!!^_~

[SS Kakarot]

Yes, I really hope so.
Can't stop thinking about her.

Thanks Carla!

[mightymask]

Ok, here's what you need to do. Get a pic of her and use some photshop skills to make her appear naked. Then get a pic of yourself naked (or use photoshop like you did for her pic). Then hold the 2 pics up to a camera with your face in the center. You need to have a wide grin on your face so you're holding both pics and wiggle your eyebrows. Capture that as an animated gif. Then you send it to her with no words. This will work like a charm. Basically it demonstrates that you're talented (the photoshop), and it means you know what you want (girls like honesty and men who are decisive). If you do the MSN thing, she's not going to take you seriously and she's gonna end up married in a couple years and she'll invite you to be the ring bearer. If I could liken this to anything, picture yourself as Gohan when he was fighting Cell. If you do the MSN thing, it will be like when he was toying with Cell and Goku ended up getting killed. Don't make the same mistake. Go right for it right away. Don't risk Goku dying and regretting it for the rest of your life. You. Naked pics. Photoshop. Let me know when the wedding is.

[Gonzai]

LMAO - MM!!

I really needed a pick me up, and that did the trick!!

[hyelakingsfan]

LMAOOO MM. Man that was hilarious. Love the DBZ comparison.

[SS Kakarot]

I could not stop laughing when I read that!
Thanks Mightymask, I needed that!

Funny though, I always try to compare everything to DBZ things too.

[Baylor]

OMG, MM, thank you for reminding me why I always wanted to meet you in person. You need to post more often... I miss your humor!!

[mightymask]

I'm glad I'm not the only one laughing at my insanity. Thanks. Good luck SS kak - I voted MSN. See where it goes and just be yourself. If you're looking for more though, don't waste too much time if you're not getting the right signals. If it's not her, there's another one for you out there somewhere waiting impatiently for you.

[SS Kakarot]

Ok, here's what happened.

I have been talking with her every day for the past week, even if it was only for a minute sometimes, and everything seemed to be going nice.
She even asked me how I was doing once, out of her own, without me starting the conversation, that really ment a lot to me!

On the website (I told about it in the first post) you can post what's on your mind, so I posted that I was thinking (did not post about what).
Because all I can think of is her, but can't just post that on there.

A while ago she came online and started a conversation out of her own again, asking me what I was thinking about!!
So I just said some normal stuff, and at the end I said 'and you'....

She asked why I was thinking about her, I panicked a little, and said I think about all my friends, but that I did find her very kind, and that I'm so happy I was able to talk with her again.
She found that sweet, so I asked her what she's been thinking about.
Some of her Family is not doing well, so she said that, and school.
Not a boy, or perhaps she just doesn't want to share with me who she has a crush on.
Then she left, still normal, and not upset, thank god.

Now my problem is, did I screw up by saying I think about her?
Sure I didn't say I love her, but she has got to know that by now.
I think that if she liked me, she would have said it, or maybe she is even more shy then me.

Ack, I just don't know what I should do!
What do you think, Beta friends?

Edit: Sorry Mightymask, I just now read your post.
Thanks for the kind words!

[mightymask]

You're overthinking things. Just be yourself and relax. If you walk on eggshells worrying about what you're going to say, it's not going to appear natural and her bs detector will go up. Find a common interest and explore. Just have the attitude of how many nice worthy girls are out there (maybe one better than her). That way, the pressure is off. I also would try to take opportunities to mention getting together in person for coffee or something. Most girls I've met do want to be pursued (if you're getting good signals from them). I might be out of my element here and mabye a girl poster would be better at advice on this.

[Gonzai]

Most girls I've met do want to be pursued (if you're getting good signals from them).

Only by you honey, only by you!!

Ok, I admit it, I love you Erik!! There, I said it - I feel
so much better now!!

[Ronin]

You're overthinking things. Just be yourself and relax.

Sound advice.

[wELCOME cONSUMER]

This story would make a great romance manga.