Need advice, love problems!

[mightymask]

Most girls I've met do want to be pursued (if you're getting good signals from them).

Only by you honey, only by you!!

Ok, I admit it, I love you Erik!! There, I said it - I feel
so much better now!!

it's cruel how this purdy girl teases me so ....

[Cloud]

Enough about me, let's talk about my dress.

[SS Kakarot]

Thanks again for the kind words and advice.
Really, you think this would make a good Manga, wELCOME cONSUMER?

She has not been online since I last posted yesterday.
Perhaps I do worry too much, but I just have such a weird feeling about this.
Here's another thing that happened:

I asked my Mother about love stuff (not on the Internet), and I had not mentioned the girl I love at all, she did know that I liked her all those years ago in school, but nothing has been said about her since then.
All of sudden she said, 'I do think that girl liked you back then'.
There is no way she could have known about me talking with her again, as she does not go online.

People must think I'm nuts for loving someone so much just by talking with her online, and not having seen her for real in years.
I really don't mean to sound crazy (I'm sure I do by now, if so, sorry) but I'm beginning to think that it was fate that I met her again, even if it is only online.
Usually I don't believe in things like that, but I dream about her, I think about her day and night, she has been talking nice to me, and now my Mother mentions her all of a sudden.

Well I'd better stop talking now, I'm sure you must begetting tired of this by now....

[kymaera]

In case you get stuck for anything to say, you can always steal from this song.

[SS Kakarot]

Thanks, kymaera!

Well, she's still nice, and we made another shocking discovery; she lives very very near where I live.
I moved last year, and now I live so close to her, who could have ever thought that, after all these years!

I'm always asking how she's feeling and how her day was, and she said that I am the only one who does that, so that's a good thing I hope.
She must have other boys (from work, etc.) on her mind, but who knows, maybe I can make her forget about those!

I am going to ask her out one of these days, and see what she will say about that.
I really hope it will all work out ok, she seems to good to be true right now.

Any advice is welcome!

[kymaera]

Find an event that's happening near her that would be appropriate and mention to her that you're thinking about going. Then, mention if she wants to go as well since she's so close.

[SS Kakarot]

Thanks again, kymaera.
That's good advice!

Too bad there's not much going on here before the end of next month!

Haven't seen her online yet today, so I'm thinking of posting a good night message on her site before I go to bed.
Or would that be stupid?

EDIT: Well, I did it anyway, so I'll just wait if I get a response to it.

[SS Kakarot]

Ok, things are going just as I feared, she is interested in one other boy, a boy that she met though her sister's boyfriend.
So they don't even have a past together.
They did go out together today.

Now I never speak very very positive about myself, but from what I've seen of this dude, I know I'm better then him.
And I doubt that he thinks as high of her as I do.

So the new problem is, how the heck do I make her notice me now?
What can I do , I can't just forget about her, and I can't ask her out right away now either!

D'oh, I need help, big time!

[glorff]

Patience, if she is the girl for you she will discover it herself. Be there and care, then all you can do is see what fate brings you

Whatever you do do not bash the other guy

[Ronin]

Yeaah listen to Glorff, but if you like her...talk to her..

[SS Kakarot]

Yes, that is great advice!
Thanks, you guys are so awesome!

I am wondering if I should ask her out though, or if it's better to wait with that too?
Talking on the internet is easier, but I just wish that I could see her for real again, maybe then I can find out if she cares for me at all.

Anyway, thanks for reading this Topic everyone, it means a lot to me that there are some people out there who care.

[Ronin]

Well instead of asking us these questions, ask her. Invite her out (not necessarily on a date) and see what she thinks.

Obviously if she wants to meet up, then that'll give you a good indication of how much she actually likes you. Then from there you can actually talk to her and see whether you like her and whether you two get along...and you can take it from there I guess…

[glorff]

I would try to find something that you can do to add her and a friend to something you are doing as a group. You need to find a way to remove the "threat" of meeting again. A Fair, festival or sporting event comes to mind. The important thing is that it be something where you can both be comfortable and not have the pressure of a "date" on your reunion. Try to find something that will show your shining personality and sense of humor.

Guys are into hot bodies, but girls are more likely to fall for a guy that listens, replies thoughtfully and has a sense of humor.

Also remember that most girls would rather have a single daisy handed to them with a genuine caring smile than a roomful of delivered roses.

[SS Kakarot]

Thanks again Ronin and Glorff!

So far she is still talking nice to me on MSN and the Website, now I'm not really sure, but I saw some messages she wrote for one of her girlfriends (on the Dutch Website) saying that she went out this week and saw her big friend doing something she didn't like.
I'm thinking it's the dude that I mentioned in my last post.

In any case, they are giving away movie tickets next week at a supermarket where I shop, so I'm thinking of asking her to go with me to a movie since I got a ticket, and maybe get a drink.
I could say something like 'I'm asking around if someone wants to go with me to the movies, so if your interested just let me know...'

What do you all think about that, any advice is welcome, and thanks again for reading and posting!

[mightymask]

Also remember that most girls would rather have a single daisy handed to them with a genuine caring smile than a roomful of delivered roses.

You're getting sound advice but if I could add anything, on your first date, definitely go with the single daisy idea but show up with no pants and tie it to your dong. It also wouldn't hurt to show up a little 'at attention' if you know what I mean ... and if you're having trouble in that department, tie a helium balloon along with the daisy.... that way you're showing your creativity, your humor, your interest in her, and she's getting two gifts (scratch that ... three gifts) instead of one! Have an extra pair of pants with you though just in case the cops see you and plus you'll need to change in to them before you head off to the movies. Better make them sweatpants so you can jump into them at a moment's notice. Plus she'll be impressed with your spryness as you jump right into those sweatpants. Forget the drink though. I'd go with a Disney movie. Maybe Ratatooie. Girls like sensitive guys.