Need advice, love problems!

[SS Kakarot]

Oh Mightymask, you always crack me up!

[SS Kakarot]

Ok, it turned out not to be the boy that I thought it was.
She is still nice to me, and later this week I will ask her if she wants to go with me to a movie.

I am very curious what she will say, whish me luck, and again any advice is welcome!

[hyelakingsfan]

You know what i think you should do....tell her to create an account here and then give her the link to this topic

[SS Kakarot]

Good one hyelakingsfan!

[Cloud]

one hyelakingsfan is good, isn't it! One what?

[SS Kakarot]

Every hyelakingsfan is good Cloud!

[Cloud]

That is a generalization.

[SS Kakarot]

Ok, just to keep you all updated, I'm going to try and ask her out to a movie tomorrow.
I'm planning on letting her pick the day, time, and movie.
So far I have talked with her almost every single day (even if it was just for one minute a couple of times) since I found her, so it would be funny if she wouldn't be online tomorrow .
If anyone has any advice on how I should ask it, please post it.

Thanks again for everyone who reads this silly love Topic!

[kymaera]

Just remember to be polite and helpful on your date so you make a good impressions.

[SS Kakarot]

Haha, that was funny!
Thanks for posting!

I really doubt she will even say yes, especially since she is still seeing that other boy.
But who knows...life's a funny thing, when it comes to love.

[miz ducky]

If she's still dating someone, then it would be best to just try to meet her in a social setting instead of asking her on a date.

1. Asking her out when you know she's with someone says that you don't respect her present relationship.
2. Patience works wonders.

When you do ask her out, don't just ask her if she wants to do something sometime. If you are going to ask someone out, then You are the one who needs to have a plan. You don't ask a person out only to make them make all the decisions (otherwise they might as well be the one asking you out, which Is Not the point).

Make up your mind about the details, Then ask. If she has a conflict, be flexible and let her know that you're willing to work around anything that she might have already had planned.

[SS Kakarot]

Thanks for the advice miz ducky.
I will keep it all in mind.

So this morning I asked her if she would like to go watch a movie sometime, all she said was "I'll think about it" with a smiley emoticon behind it, then I said, "ok, that's fine".
She has not been online since that conversation.

I'm not sure what to think now, either she blocked me after that, or she is not going to mention it anymore.
What do you all think?

[glorff]

I still think that a first re-introduction meeting as a group of people (both of you and a couple of friends) is the safest way for her to not feel too much pressure.

[Cloud]

What would make you stop think that a first re-introduction meeting as a group of people both of you and a couple of friends is the safest way for her to not feel too much pressure? When is first re-introduction meeting as a group of people both of you and a couple of friends not the safest way for her to not feel too much pressure ?

[SS Kakarot]

Yeah, I think you are right about that glorff.
The only problem is that I don't really know any people I could also ask at the moment.
I know that she has plenty of friends, so she may not need my attention at all, unless she was really interested in me.

I'm going to wait it out for a couple of days, who knows maybe she really is thinking about it, and decide to go after all!

She has a school interview tomorrow morning, I posted a good luck message on her website just now, so far nobody else has (and I know some of her friends that are also members on the website knew about it), if she doesn't like that, then something must be wrong with her.
I'm always happy if someone reaches out to me.

As long as she doesn't act mean to me, I'm going to keep talking nice, and posting kind messages on her website.
C'est la vie....