Should you make a move? Should you wait and let him do it?

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Which is better.....

Poll ended at Wed Mar 07, 2007 4:58 pm

girl asking the guy out
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41%
guy asking the girl out
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59%
 
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Should you make a move? Should you wait and let him do it?

Post by ginga123 »

just being curious as i try to gather up some courage^^.....

you see i've been chasing after a guy for a few weeks now. we both like each other, etc. but...

he doesn't have the courage to finish his questions...."could you please give me.... [insert hesitant pause]" OR "jen, would you like to... [insert another dead pause]"

*insert jen's disappointment here*


so i am asking which is better. i am going to try and ask him out this week; but, a lil advice never hurts. :)
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And you would like him to have the courage to finish his questions ?
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yes, cloud. it would be very nice if he could finish asking me his question.
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Why do you want very nice if he could finish asking me his question instead?
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Post by iwakuralain16 »

I came up with this issue once before too. Just tell him how you feel. haha I rarely wait for guys to tell me how they feel, i get impatient and confront them... aahaha @_@
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OK I will tell him how you feel next time he is here.
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Suggest something un date like that you can do together and see what happens. He may be threatened if you do more and do the natural thing for shy guys........run :wink:
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Post by Not Sir Phobos »

If the guy can't work up the nerve to ask you out then he seems a poor candidate to be your champion for life.

Tell him you like him and would be interested in going out some time. Then let him decide whether to do the actual asking himself. My reason behind this is that if confronted with the cold hard facts that he will get a yes and he still chickens out he's not a guy you'll want to spend YOUR time on.

I have a close friend who went through the exact same thing. In the end after never asking her out she asked him about a date...with another guy. Again being too chicken to say otherwise, he said ok, and she's happily with another guy now.

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I hadn't thought of that.
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You know what I think :P
I don't like to waste time being all shy and stuff. Life is too short, just go for it.
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Oh, short just go for it is LIFE .
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Post by Ronin »

Glorff and NSP have some good tips there. I mean if you both clearly like each other, there shouldn't be a problem there for him.
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Oh I get it. Thanks for explaining that. I think I do.
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Post by Ronin »

What are you on Cloud!? You seem very interested in this thread...picking up tips?
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I don't know what I am on you.
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3. A robot must protect its own existence as long as such protection does not conflict with the First or Second Law.
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