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Love Problems (Part II)

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Hello fellow Beta members,

Ok, here we go again.
I'm sure some of you (if not all) remember my previous Topic about my love problems. :cry:
For those who still remember it, no, nothing has happened yet, and yes, I'm still crazy about her.

I'll try to make the story short again for those who are new, or forgot:
About ten years ago I was in the same class as a beautiful girl, who I liked from the first minute I saw her.
I was in that class for three years, and I'm sure she knew that I liked her a lot, she was always nice to me.
After those school years were over I never saw her again, but never forgot her either.
Now, all those years later I found her again (couple of months ago) on the internet, so I get to talk with her every now and then when she is online on MSN, she still talks very nice to me, looks like she goes out almost every week, and has had a boyfriend, but that didn't last so she doesn't have one at this moment.
I do get the feeling again that she knows I like her a lot, even though I have not seen her for all those years.
I did ask her to go see a movie with me a couple of months ago, but she was going through some rough times so that didn't happen. :(

All that I can think of right now is sending her a Christmas card next month, and just put some nice words in it.
But I keep getting the feeling that's so normal and she must get tons of 'em, so she'll just think 'oh great, now I have to send him a card...'.
Or am I thinking wrong? :?

There's also a party from something I work for next month, so I'm going to ask if she would like to come there if I get the chance, but I doubt very much that she will.

Sorry once again for the long post, I just keep having a weird feeling about her, like it was meant to be.
I also always wonder, if you love a girl so much (in my case, without even seeing her for years), with all your heart, how could she not love you.
It's not that I said 'I'm crazy about you' but I'm 90% sure that she knows, and I just wish I could meet her for real someday, and see how she acts to me then, not just on the internet, and think or me as a web stalker or something like that! :roll:
I think that if she really would never want to meet me, she wouldn't even talk with me, right, even if it is just MSN?

So, what do you all think about it?
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Thanks Cloud, I just wish she would love me! :cry:
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You are quite welcome! I don't have any reason to he or she just wish she would love you.
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If she won't think it creepy...Show up at her house with a small gift, and tell her how you feel. Do it on the night of a snowfall...If you live in a snow area. It would be o so romantic.

Otherwise, send a live orchid plant, with a simple card saying "Can I see you soon?"

Hard to say how she'll react not knowing what rough times she went through...

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SS Kakarot wrote: I did ask her to go see a movie with me a couple of months ago, but she was going through some rough times so that didn't happen. :(

All that I can think of right now is sending her a Christmas card next month, and just put some nice words in it.
But I keep getting the feeling that's so normal and she must get tons of 'em, so she'll just think 'oh great, now I have to send him a card...'.
Or am I thinking wrong? :?
I think you should give the card! It's who you are and you thought of it yourself. It's your personality and not someone elses!

But I think you need to go to her and deliver it in person. That gives it a special twist that you care for her and didn't just spend 2 minutes sending out a card. Do things that takes time and make her feel loved.

What are her interests? What kind of rough times is she going through?

If this person is the one you want to spend the rest of your life together with then, the time she needs you most are during those rough times. A Movie may not be the right thing for rough times, but what depending on the situation you should be there for her.

Ask her how you can help! If you love her, then do things so that she knows you love her.
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Send her some wine and a card saying " Yo baby, I love your flava,
ride wit me next weekend for some grub cause I got tha scrilla"

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If you're serious about this - Here is the solution to your dilemma http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=veae4gU9 ... re=related
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Mmm...The story sounds cute ^_^

But Are you sure that she knows? I mean, sometimes I think that people like me, and sometimes I am very nice to other people and they think that I like them but I don't.....So....

I would try to invite her somewhere, to like a X-mas party, or bowling...If a guy showed up at my house with a card I would be freaked out.
If she told you where she lives, then show up with a card or roses...
If you found out where she lives by other means and not by being told by her, she may think that you stalk her....

Either way, I wish you luck ^^
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mightymask wrote:If you're serious about this - Here is the solution to your dilemma http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=veae4gU9 ... re=related
LOLZ! Classic!
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Oh yep! Moon rabbit's right...

Don't go anywhere near her house unless she says so. The complete, "I know where you live" thing is very very creepy.

Maybe she'll tell you where she works... See if you guys have anything in common about the kind of jobs you like! ~_^


p.s. hmmm... Nsp, What is a scrilla?
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RoboFlonne wrote:

p.s. hmmm... Nsp, What is a scrilla?
Money :D
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Maybe she DOSEN'T like the whole online dating thing??? /hmm

There are a LOT of CRAZY people out there -------> points to mightymask

Don't rush things too fast just wait to see if she will give you her phone number???

Then go from there Good Luck!!! :wink:
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If you know where she works(Better) or lives you should send her something that will make her smile like a cookie boquet or a big bundle of balloons. Sign it with something like "Who do you think would do this" and let her react. No flowers or lovie dovie kind of stuff!

Safe and smiles :D
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